Be a Better Man 3: The Promised Landing

Be a Better Man 3:
The Promised Landing

Thank you for your interest in the Be a Better Man 3: The Promised Landing

The following questions will determine if you are an appropriate candidate.

IMPORTANT:

  • This course is only for men who have completed The Better Man Bridge Course (Ten Steps Curriculum), and truly desire to learn more from Dr. Minwalla about the abuse and trauma in having a secret sexual life.
  • You are required to have an individual therapist to participate in the Be a Better Man 3: The Promised Landing.
  • This course is not treatment. It is highly specialized psychoeducation to supplement ongoing therapy with your individual therapist.
  • Participation in this course does not establish a therapist-patient relationship between you and Dr. Minwalla.
  • You must rely upon your individual therapist if any clinical symptoms arise during or after the course.
  • If you have a partner, it is recommended that a plan be established, as relevant, for how and when to interact during and after the course, ideally, that includes support from a licensed mental health professional.
  • You are not a suitable candidate for this course if you have been hospitalized for anything psychiatric, have attempted suicide or have experienced any serious psychological concerns, since you took the last course.

8. Dr. Minwalla only admits applicants who are prepared and personally motivated to take this psychoeducational course.

Thank you for your interest in The Be a Better Man 3 Course. Your Application has been Submitted.

Please Schedule Your 20 Minute Consultation

ISH is reviewing your application. Please look for an email from “ishfrontdesk@gmail.com” for more information regarding your application.

Be a Better Man 3: The Promised Landing

Be a Better Man 3:
The Promised Landing

Thank you for your interest in The Be a Better Man 3 Course. Your Application has been Submitted.

ISH is reviewing your application. Please look for an email from “ishfrontdesk@gmail.com” for more information regarding your application.
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Be a Better Man 3: The Promised Landing

Be a Better Man 3:
The Promised Landing

One More Step!

Please use the link below to schedule your 20-minute phone consultation with Dr. Minwalla.
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Gundolf Strehl, DSTT

San Miguel de Tucumán, Argentina

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Yanira L. Rivera Cruz, Coch, DSTP

Quebradillas, Puerto Rico

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Be a Better Man 1: Sabbath Schedule

Different Schedule for Sabbath Observant Men, the exact same course and content with Dr. Minwalla, but simply scheduling change, and anyone who has been accepted to take Be a Better Man 1 is welcome.

4-Days:

7am-3pm PST (Los Angeles Time Zone)

  • Friday, May 23, 2025
  • Sunday, May 25, 2025
  • Monday, May 26, 2025
  • Tuesday, May 27, 2025

You can apply, which includes scheduling a free 20-minute phone consultation with Dr. Minwalla to discuss the course further and answer any questions you may have and suitability.

If interested, Submit an application here.

Professional Education and Training 2025

This education and training helps professionals become more aware, ethically informed, and able to treat the psychological abuse and trauma associated with infidelity and compulsive sexual behavior disorder.
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Waiting List

Dates for the next Level 3 Education and Training Cohort are yet to be decided. However, you may submit an application for Level 1 now and be on our waiting list.

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Waiting List

Dates for the next Level 2 Education and Training Cohort are yet to be decided. However, you may submit an application for Level 1 now and be on our waiting list.

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Waiting List

Dates for the next Level 1 Education and Training Cohort are yet to be decided. However, you may submit an application now and be on our waiting list.

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Be a Better Man 2: The Ten steps curriculum

A new curriculum that educates on the Ten Steps to Deceptive Sexuality, and also integrates education on what to start doing, actions and how to consider developing a plan, after the Illumination, with a focus on three types of work: Integrity-Abuse Behavioral work, Attending work (how to help those harmed), and Ego work (your Self). The program will likely be starting mid-April 2025, be once per week for about 2 hours, and will run for 12 consecutive weeks.

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Student Discount

If you are a clinical grad student or currently unlicensed but under the supervision of a licensed professional, you are considered a candidate to receive a 50% discount for the entire Levels 1-4.
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Group Discount

If you have a group of 4 or more clinicians/professionals who practice in a treatment center or healthcare facility, you may qualify for a group discount.
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Level 4 Applications Open May 5, 2024?

Only professionals who have successfully completed Level 1 and Level 2 can apply for Level 3.??

Level 1 Application and Registration Open Now

  • Level 1 Application and Registration Ends: April 7, 2024.
  • To Avail Early Bird Discount for Level 1, Please register before: February 28, 2024.
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Level 3 Applications Open Oct 6, 2024

Only professionals who have successfully completed Level 1 and Level 2 can apply for Level 3.

Level 1 Application and Registration Open Now

  • Level 1 Application and Registration Ends: April 7, 2024.
  • To Avail Early Bird Discount for Level 1, Please register before: February 28, 2024.
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Level 2 Applications Open May 5, 2024

Only professionals who have successfully completed level 1 can apply for Level 2.

Level 1 Application and Registration Open Now

  • Level 1 Application and Registration Ends: April 7, 2024.
  • To Avail Early Bird Discount for Level 1, Please register before: February 28, 2024.
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Trish Haight, LMFT

Licensed Psychotherapist

Trish Haight, LMFT is a certified Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Therapist (DSTT), a specialization in deceptive sexuality and trauma (DST), offered by The Institute for Sexual Health (ISH).Trish is a leading professional voice in Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment (DSTT) and is an Adjunct Professor and Faculty Member of The Institute for Sexual Health (ISH), and currently teaches Level 2 and 3 of the DSTT Professional Training along with Dr. Omar Minwalla, Licensed Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist. Trish formally trained directly under Dr. Omar Minwalla and was an instrumental part of Dr. Minwalla’s original core clinical treatment team at The Institute for Sexual Health from 2009 – 2015, which is referred to as Dr. Minwalla’s, Sacred Clinical Incubator, giving birth to both DSTT and IVTT, Intentional Vibe Trauma Treatment. IVTT is a treatment for systemic abuse, injustice, and complex trauma, and relevant in particular to survivor-based communities.

Dr. Omar Minwalla, Psy.D.

Licensed Psychologist & Clinical Sexologist

Dr. Omar Minwalla is a Licensed Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist trained at the University of Minnesota Medical School. Dr. Minwalla has spent 20 years as a first responder on the front lines of treating infidelity and compulsive sexual behavior. His grounded theory of Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment (DSTT) not only establishes a new standard of care for the treatment of infidelity, compulsive sexual behavior disorders, and sex addiction, but shines a light on a unique method for the treatment of systemic abuse, injustice and complex trauma, called Intentional Vibe Trauma Treatment (IVTT). Dr. Minwalla is the founder of The Institute for Sexual Health (ISH) which was one of the first and only U.S. treatment centers to challenge the “co-sex addict” model and articulate the systemic abuse associated with infidelity and compulsive sexual behavior disorder.

Professional Education and Training

While we are in the process of putting together a comprehensive program that meets your expectations, we understand that you may be eager to secure your spot and we appreciate your patience.

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