Podcasts
Voice-Up Culture and Alpha Masculinity
Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Top Five Reasons the Human Voice is a Key Clinical Instrument in the Treatment of Deceptive Sexuality, Infidelity, and Sex Addiction
In this episode, Chris is joined by Dr. Omar Minwalla to explore healing from deceptive sexuality and trauma through integrity, honesty, and voice. They discuss the five stages of treatment, the “secret sexual basement,” and why the human voice—truth-telling, accountability, and speaking up—is the primary instrument of healing for survivors, relationships, and masculinity. A powerful conversation on choosing voice over violence and living without basements.
Published on: December 24, 2025
Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Healthy Masculinity (Part 2)
In Part 2 of this conversation, Chris continues his dialogue with Dr. Omar Minwalla, exploring healthy masculinity through integrity, honesty, and power. They examine how secrecy, deception, and male entitlement operate beneath the surface shaped by socialization and the “Man-Box” (Tony Porter, 2010), and how living in truth creates personal, relational, and societal healing. A grounded discussion on accountability, self-contact, and building relationships without a “secret sexual basement.”
Published on: October 26, 2025
Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Healthy Masculinity (Part 1)
In this episode, Chris continues his conversation with Dr. Omar Minwalla, diving deeper into healthy masculinity through the lens of The Three I’s—integrity, intimacy, and integration. The discussion also brings in the “Man-Box” (Tony Porter, 2010) concept, exploring how rigid cultural expectations of masculinity limit emotional honesty, accountability, and connection. Together, they unpack what it really takes for men to step out of the Man Box and move toward a more grounded, relational, and integrated masculine identity.
Published on: October 12, 2025
Conversations with Deceptive Sexuality Trauma Therapist, Trish Haight - Part 1
Chris recently sat down with Trish Haight to discuss her work and to illuminate what the journey of healing can look like for the betrayed partner and the injured relationship. Today’s episode is the first half of that conversation. Trish is a DST therapist that co-facilitates the DST training program with Dr. Omar Minwalla and was a key part of the model’s development.
Published on: September 21, 2025
Conversations with Deceptive Sexuality Trauma Therapist, Trish Haight - Part 2
This is the second half of the conversation Chris recently had with Trish Haight to discuss her work and to illuminate what the journey of healing can look like for the betrayed partner and the injured relationship. Trish is a DST therapist that co-facilitates the DST training program with Dr. Omar Minwalla and was a key part of the models development.
Published on: September 28, 2025
Chris Jones Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Part 1: Integrity
Chris recently sat down with Dr. Omar Minwalla to have some in-depth conversations about different aspects of his DST model. Today’s episode is an excerpt from those conversations where they dive deeper into the topic of integrity and why it’s such a crucial missing piece from so many treatment approaches for infidelity and compulsive sexual behaviour.
Published on: August 24, 2025
Chris Jones Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Part 2: Intimacy
Chris recently sat down with Dr. Omar Minwalla to have some in-depth conversations about different aspects of his DST model. Today’s episode is the second excerpt from those conversations where they dive deeper into the topic of intimacy and why it’s such an important part of treatment for infidelity and compulsive sexual behaviour.
Published on: August 31, 2025
Chris Jones Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Part 3: Integration
Chris recently sat down with Dr. Omar Minwalla to have some in-depth conversations about different aspects of his DST model. Today’s episode is the third excerpt from those conversations where they dive deeper into the topic of integration and why it’s such an important part of treatment for infidelity and compulsive sexual behaviour.
Published on: September 7, 2025
The Gigantic Elephant in the Room
Naming, or not naming, chronic patterns of abuse, violation and harm in intimate relationships due to deceptive sexuality.
Published on: August 5, 2019
44 mins
Shedding Light on Integrity-Abuse Disorder (IAD)
Published on: February 10, 2020
37 mins 21 secs
The Secret Sexual Basement
An educational metaphor to facilitate a foundational understanding of deceptive sexuality and the clinical term, deceptive, compartmentalized sexual-relational reality (DCSR).
Published on: March 23, 2020
41 mins 26 secs
What Up Dude?
Published on: April 28, 2020
1 hour 8 mins
Cheating is Domestic Abuse?
Published on: March 26, 2015
42 mins 58 secs
Integrity-Abuse causes Psychological Harm
Published on: December 7, 2021
48 mins 19 secs
Entitlement, Integrity, and Personality Templates:
Fundamental Concepts from The Secret Sexual Basement white paper.
Published on: November 30, 2021
37 mins 37 secs
A Call to Action: Co-Sex Addict or Abuse and Trauma Survivor?
This podcast was Dr. Minwalla’s very first guest appearance on a podcast challenging the codependency and co-sex addiction models in 2015. His trauma model back then.
Published on: March 25, 2015
38 mins 39 secs
An Interview with Dr. Omar Minwalla: 'The Secret Sexual Basement'
Published on: October 17, 2023
1 hour 6 mins
Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Top Five Reasons the Human Voice is a Key Clinical Instrument in the Treatment of Deceptive Sexuality, Infidelity, and Sex Addiction
In this episode, Chris is joined by Dr. Omar Minwalla to explore healing from deceptive sexuality and trauma through integrity, honesty, and voice. They discuss the five stages of treatment, the “secret sexual basement,” and why the human voice—truth-telling, accountability, and speaking up—is the primary instrument of healing for survivors, relationships, and masculinity. A powerful conversation on choosing voice over violence and living without basements.
Published on: December 24, 2025
43 min 36 sec
Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Healthy Masculinity (Part 1)
In this episode, Chris continues his conversation with Dr. Omar Minwalla, diving deeper into healthy masculinity through the lens of The Three I’s—integrity, intimacy, and integration. The discussion also brings in the “Man-Box” (Tony Porter, 2010) concept, exploring how rigid cultural expectations of masculinity limit emotional honesty, accountability, and connection. Together, they unpack what it really takes for men to step out of the Man Box and move toward a more grounded, relational, and integrated masculine identity.
Published on: October 12, 2025
29 min 55 sec
Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Healthy Masculinity (Part 2)
In Part 2 of this conversation, Chris continues his dialogue with Dr. Omar Minwalla, exploring healthy masculinity through integrity, honesty, and power. They examine how secrecy, deception, and male entitlement operate beneath the surface shaped by socialization and the “Man-Box” (Tony Porter, 2010), and how living in truth creates personal, relational, and societal healing. A grounded discussion on accountability, self-contact, and building relationships without a “secret sexual basement.”
Published on: October 26, 2025
31 min 18 sec
Conversations with Deceptive Sexuality Trauma Therapist, Trish Haight - Part 1
Chris recently sat down with Trish Haight to discuss her work and to illuminate what the journey of healing can look like for the betrayed partner and the injured relationship. Today’s episode is the first half of that conversation. Trish is a DST therapist that co-facilitates the DST training program with Dr. Omar Minwalla and was a key part of the model’s development.
Published on: September 21, 2025
36 min 7 sec
Conversations with Deceptive Sexuality Trauma Therapist, Trish Haight - Part 2
This is the second half of the conversation Chris recently had with Trish Haight to discuss her work and to illuminate what the journey of healing can look like for the betrayed partner and the injured relationship. Trish is a DST therapist that co-facilitates the DST training program with Dr. Omar Minwalla and was a key part of the models development.
Published on: September 28, 2025
38 min 25 sec
Chris Jones Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Part 1: Integrity
Chris recently sat down with Dr. Omar Minwalla to have some in-depth conversations about different aspects of his DST model. Today’s episode is an excerpt from those conversations where they dive deeper into the topic of integrity and why it’s such a crucial missing piece from so many treatment approaches for infidelity and compulsive sexual behaviour.
Published on: August 24, 2025
57 mins 38 secs
Chris Jones Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Part 2: Intimacy
Chris recently sat down with Dr. Omar Minwalla to have some in-depth conversations about different aspects of his DST model. Today’s episode is the second excerpt from those conversations where they dive deeper into the topic of intimacy and why it’s such an important part of treatment for infidelity and compulsive sexual behaviour.
Published on: August 31, 2025
34 mins 52 secs
Chris Jones Conversations with Dr. Minwalla - Part 3: Integration
Chris recently sat down with Dr. Omar Minwalla to have some in-depth conversations about different aspects of his DST model. Today’s episode is the third excerpt from those conversations where they dive deeper into the topic of integration and why it’s such an important part of treatment for infidelity and compulsive sexual behaviour.
Published on: September 7, 2025
36 mins 3 secs
Integrity-Abuse causes Psychological Harm
Published on: December 7, 2021
48 mins 19 secs
Entitlement, Integrity, and Personality Templates:
Published on: November 30, 2021
37 mins 37 secs
What Up Dude?
Is it sex addiction or actually unhealthy masculinity and sexual entitlement? Gender pathology as a significant missing piece in understanding compulsive sexual behavior and sex addiction disorders.
Published on: April 28, 2020
1 hour 8 mins
The Secret Sexual Basement
An educational metaphor to facilitate a foundational understanding of deceptive sexuality and the clinical term, deceptive, compartmentalized sexual-relational reality (DCSR).
Published on: March 23, 2020
41 mins 26 secs
Shedding Light on Integrity-Abuse Disorder (IAD)
Compulsive sexual behavior and sex addiction is not just a sexual problem but an Intimate partner and domestic abuse problem.
Published on: February 10, 2020
37 mins 21 secs
The Gigantic Elephant in the Room
Naming, or not naming, chronic patterns of abuse, violation and harm in intimate relationships due to deceptive sexuality.
Published on: August 5, 2019
44 mins
Cheating is Domestic Abuse?
Published on: March 26, 2015
42 mins 58 secs
A Call to Action: Co-Sex Addict or Abuse and Trauma Survivor?
This podcast was Dr. Minwalla's very first guest appearance on a podcast challenging the codependency and co-sex addiction models in 2015. His trauma model back then.
Published on: March 25, 2015
38 mins 39 secs
